People I dislike.

Hi, it's been long since I last shared anything personal, as in emotionally. Been wanting to post something about this topic all these while, just didnt have the time and couldnt bring myself to do it as I might offend quite a number of people out there. So is there any kind of people out there who you dislike? Character wise, behavior wise, personality wise and even just thinking wise. For me, there's quite a number. I know I'm not perfect either. But this is my blog right? No harm writing what I feel. Mayb I shall go according to gender?

Girls' character, behavior, personality and thinking that I dislike (not in any kind of sequence):

1. Girls who smoke - Ok, I'm a non-smoker therefore personally I dont like anyone smoking especially girls. No matter how good looking I think you are, as long as I know you smoke, I dont think you're anywhere near pretty.

2. Girls who are too friendly - I'm attached as you all should know. So I really dislike girls who are too friendly, especially towards any of their guy friends even though the girl herself is attached. I mean if you dont respect yourself but then mayb at the very least respect your Bf? And worse if the guy you're too friendly to is attached, what makes you? Seriously. It's ok for a guy and girl to be friends ofcourse, but not way too friendly. Eg, As friends, the girl dont have to morning call to wake the guy up every morning. Unless both of you are single, fine, go ahead.

3. Girls who dont have enough self-love/ self-respect - Do I need to say more?

4. Girls who love to send their own self-shots to guy friends privately/in group chats - If the person asked for it, FINE. That guy likes you, he wants to see your face. If you changed your face/hairstyle drastically, FINE. If not why do you have to send your self-shots to your guy friends when they didnt ask for it and WORSE IF they are attached. Have some respect for the couple please? You're a girl right, would you like it if another girl send her own self-shots to your bf every other day? If you say no, give me your Bf's number, let's try shall we? Hahaha.

5. Girls who text/call an attached guy too much/too often or at unearthly hours - Firstly, the guy is attached, again where's your respect? And at unearthly hours, really? You dont need to sleep, you got nothing to do, but people might be sleeping already because they have got work the next day!

6. Girls who "act single" or "behave single" - So ashamed to be in a relationship or you are not proud to have your Bf/husband at all? If not proud, then why are you still with them? Enjoy being surrounded and chased by guys, how about you stay single? (:

7. Girls (attached) who loves to take individual photos with ANY guys - Yes I love to take photos but I dont take any individual photos with any guys especially if the guy is attached. Most of the time, I only take individual pics with guys who's my bf, my relatives, my cousins or mayb guy friend's important day (Birthdays/Weddings). Other than that, you dont see me taking photos with guys just because I want to. Because I respect my bf and also the gfs of my friends (even though I might not know the gf at all). And again, if both of you are single, go ahead.

8. Girls who club/pub all the time - I dont think it's very nice to see a girl wearing too little and always getting drunk. Especially if you're not a very good drinker yet always want to go clubbing etc, dont wait till bad things happen then you regret.





Guys' character, behavior, personality and thinking that I dislike (not in any kind of sequence):

1. Guys who smoke ALOT - Like I said, I'm a non-smoker. Most guys likes to think that guys smoking is very common, I dont like it still but I cannot stand it most when they smoke ALOT like if "I dont finish smoking this whole pack today, I'll die" kind of thing.

2. Guys who are too 大男人 Male chauvinism - Hello? We are not in 1960s anymore. You can, I cannot? Women and men are equal already and there are some women out there are earning more than the men now. So BOO!

3. Guys who disrespect their gf/wife - Mayb because I'm a female, so this might be kinda bias. Scolding/shouting at your Gf/wife for even at the slightest thing? Texting/chatting with other girls, and when they gf/wife finds out, scold them for not trusting you and blaming her for always making a big fuss over small things? Really? When all she does was being faithful to you?

4. Guys who DONT WANT to bring their gf/wife when they go out with their friends - Oh really? So ashamed of your own gf/wife? Then why did you even have them in the first place? You all can always hang out together, no? I cannot stand guys who goes like "Hey I'm going out/overseas with my friends today/this weekend" And so? How about your Gf or your wife? Even worse if you have a family already.

5. Guys who always put their friends first - Gf/wife say "Hey let's go town for dinner tonight" Guy replied "Dont want la, tired" Mayb next day Friend say "Hey let's go town for dinner tonight" Guy replied "Ok" WHAT!? Why Friends ask can, Gf/wife ask sure got excuses? Even worse if it happens on the same freaking day. Why be such an ass? And then you go out so late leaving your gf/wife waiting for you at home.

6. Guys who "hide" things from their gf/wife - Change phones' passcode because she should trust you and not by "checking" your phone. Females are more of a visual person and many of us have trust issues because of all the failed relationship/stories that we been through or heard. We prefer to see "proof" of you being faithful with our own eyes than to trust blindly. And it's always better to tell her first before she finds anything out herself later.

7. Guys (attached) who always like other girls' photos ESP girls' selfshots - It's quite disgusting really. Why like that? I feel sad for the gf/wife leis. Also never see you like your own gf/wife photos most of the time.

8. Guys who go gaga over girls who took photoshoots - I dont know why nowadays people tend to think that photoshoots = models. Any one can take photoshoots, solo/group or whatever. But that doesnt make them a model?! Why so shallow? They are probably just girls working in the events industry.

9. Guys who game all day all night - I'm sure there's better for you to do out there, yes? Like getting a proper decent job.









So what you all think? Do comment!

Actually, all comes down to respect and knowing your limits. Think before you do/make any decision. Who was the one by your side all these while and who is just there once in awhile ALTHOUGH you guys might have great times together? Some of the points might be vice versa too haha. & I'm really glad I've got super understanding girlfriends who doesnt make me choose between Bf or them! :D

I might add on to this list anytime I think of any! :D
Thankyou for reading!

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Just sharing~

Read this status sometime back on Fb, written by a guy, Darren Chia. I totally agree with it. So just sharing with you all!

For everyone, both single and attached; this is long but you might benefit from this.
For those attached, please keep a safe distance between you and the opposite sex. Only friends should be strictly only friends. What do I mean? I'd go on to that.

As humans, we are naturally sensitive to our emotions otherwise commonly known as feelings. By allowing the opposite sex to be near you or to woo you even if are attached, you are giving yourself a chance to develop feelings for another someone.

Don't say you won't because when it finally happens, you'll be saying, "I lost my feelings for him/her", "I cannot control love", "He/she didn't love me as much as before". (All these, I conclude are excuses and would never have happened if you didn't give yourself the chance to allow it to happen, if you understand what I mean). Don't all these excuses sound familiar? Those guilty of it, do reflect.

Some people believe man and woman can be best friends. Feelings develop between the sexes, that's nature my friend. How do I prove this? How does a blind person fall in love without having seen their partners before? Emotions/feelings that is, the purest form of love not having been affected by factors such as appearance. Would a male fall in love with a male? Unless he's a gay of course. What is the case in point here? Anyone can fall in love with anyone, given enough time to communicate and interact. Don't test/overestimate yourselves. We are afterall humans and you're right when you say you can't control love, so don't give yourself that chance to sway from the current love. Best friends can only happen between a similar sex.

Now we'd talk about normal friends. When I say only friends should remain as only friends, I meant this; normal friends between the opposite sex only allows for minimal contact or contact only when necessary. Meaning? It can be something as simple as, "What time does school end tomorrow?", or "Is there project after school tomorrow?", or maybe even "Do u have a job to introduce?"

Definitely not something like that, "Hey, good morning! ^-^", or "Have you eaten lunch?" This kind of messages are strictly not supposed to happen between normal friends. If you're single, anyone can send you these. When you're attached, know where you stand. As I always say, you can't have the best of both worlds.

For those who know someone is attached, don't be a bitch or a bastard trying to woo your target. You can wait but don't ever try to woo while your target is in the midst of a relationship.

This would better help girls understand how guys mind work? Some girls till today don't understand why guys always ask about the other guy even after being told, "He's a normal friend". We ask because that guy is not acting like a normal friend. And worse still, you're replying to their texts which allows them to think they have the chance. Know when a guy is a normal friend and when a guy isn't. Same thing for guys, if you're lucky to be popular, don't go reply girls here and there. It's isn't cool.

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When a guy cheat with you, he will cheat on you.

Bet everyone have read or heard about the Zoe Raymond Saga.
If you have not, you can visit Alvin & Yuki FB page.
Part 1 & Part 2

Personally I dont know her and want to make no comments directly at her.
Just in general, I've always believed that

"When a guy cheat with you, he will cheat on you"

I mean it's like if a guy is willing to cheat on his gf just to be with you, what makes you think that he wouldnt cheat on you and be with another girl he wants to be with? Therefore personally, I hate third parties and I swear I will never be one unless I wasnt aware that the guy is attached.

And mayb because I'm currently in a 3years plus on-going relationship, I take 3rd parties issues rather personally. Like putting myself in the shoes of the gf that was cheated on and all. I'm very certain that if I was the girl being cheated on, I would have gone bonkers and I might go to the extent of wanting to kill the 3rd party.

Ofcourse I wouldnt say that it's entirely the 3rd party's fault. The guy involved is the one in total fault. If you dont love your gf anymore or more than the girl out there then break it off with her before you get involved with the other girl and ending up being a cheater and all 3 of you gets hurt.

It's like

"Love is not a game, so why cheat?"

Although thank god, I've never cheated on before (or not that I know of), but my girlfriends/friends/online bloggers have shared their stories and I know I never want to feel like any of them hurting in that way. Breaking up hurts, but being cheated on hurts 10x more.


Ofcourse, your partner might not be the best-looking, smartest, most capable person in the world.
But he/she loves you.
Time might be hard at times, but remember how far you have been through together.


So if you're in a relationship right now, I hope you cherish and treasure each other more.
Cause you might never find another who loves you like they do.

And if you're not, I believed the right one will appear, just in a matter of time.
Just please, dont destroy other's relationship/marriage just because you cant have yours or you think the couple are not suitable for each other just because they quarrelled too much too often and you would be the better option for them. Same goes to the girls if you've been unfaithful.

If you cant stay faithful, then stay single.
Those guys/girls who have been cheated on before, chin up!
You're better than those cheaters.

Karma is a bitch, what comes around, goes around.


xoxo.

ME SINGING.

I WAS TOO BORED AT HOME, HENCE. LOL.

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One of my all time favourite.

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It's ok if you think I sucked, this is my blog! (:

Couldn't agree more!

3 Women to Keep Away from Your Boyfriend

http://www.myfatpocket.com/sex-love/3-women-to-keep-away-from-your-boyfriend.html

No matter how much you love and trust your boyfriend (or husband), men are weak and need assistance in preventing themselves from getting into trouble. I'm not one to advocate caging your man to prevent him from cheating.

However, I'm also not one to advocate being a damn fool playing with fire and inviting trouble into your relationship. Here are 3 types of women who will just spell trouble for any relationship, so avoid them if you can.

The Ex-Girlfriend / Ex-Wife

He may say that he no longer has feelings for his ex, and it may well be true but she is the one who had a special bond with him. The ex can ruin your relationship if she's always in the picture. Does she call him when she loses her job, breaks up with her new boyfriend or has a problem? Is he the one man in her mind who truly 'get's her'?

You don't have to make her the enemy but you need to draw the line somewhere. They are no longer a couple, and she should not depend on him or expect to maintain such an emotionally intimate relationship with him. Give this witch the boot, it's a huge world out there, she can find someone else to lean on.

The Low Self-Esteem Woman

We all know women like this. A woman with low self-esteem will do almost anything for male attention. She will flirt with your boyfriend, bad mouth you behind your back, display sluttish behaviour and fish for compliments from your man.

She needs it to feel good about herself. Never leave such a woman alone with your boyfriend. It's not that you don't trust your man, but be warned that such women will bend over backwards for the attention of anyone with a penis.

The Model Chick

Ok, I know that it's not fair to say this because it's not like being gorgeous makes her a bad person. She may be your friend and have no ill intentions towards your relationship at all. But do you like the thought of your man fantasizing about this model chick?

And which man honestly doesn't want to say to his friends, "I nailed a model!" ? So don't suggest that your boyfriend give her a lift in his car on his way home from work, or that he go over to her apartment without you to fix a leak in her taps. Just to prevent temptation and err on the side of caution, don't allow them to get unnecessarily close.

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Cheating when Drunk, Forgive & Forget it?

http://www.myfatpocket.com/sex-love/cheating-when-drunk-forgive-forget-it.html

Being drunk is just an excuse people (women included) use countless of times to explain why they cheated on their partners. Cheating is cheating, and I don't think alcohol is to be blamed for it. Cheaters should be responsible for their mistakes and not play the victim.

If alcohol makes people so unaware of what they are doing, then when 2 men are drinking together and get drunk, how come they don't end up having sex with each other? Quite simply because they are aware of what they are doing!

There's a Spanish saying - No hay borracho que coma fuego which roughly translates as - There is no drunk that will eat fire. A drunk knows that something he is about to do is wrong, but he wants to do it (usually for pleasure) and he just doesn't give a damn.

Drinking merely curtails ones inhibitions. I don't believe that alcohol is ever going to make someone do something that he doesn't want to do on some level when sober but was just afraid to do it.

The only exception where I would forgive a person for cheating is if he or she was drugged (date drug, roofie, etc) and then raped while passed out. I would see them as an unwilling victim in such a situation, but otherwise, there is no excuse for cheating!

If you are unfortunate enough to be faced with the situation of a drunken partner cheating on you and then asking for a second chance, you need to ask yourself if you can handle being the kind of girl who will worry that her boyfriend is cheating on her every time he goes out for drinks.

If you don't mind being paranoid, then feel free to go back to him. But the truth remains that he did cheat on you, alcohol was just an excuse.

Furthermore, if a man is really so incredibly drunk that he truly has no idea what he is doing, then he will probably lose his legs and kiss the ground and he will pass out. He wouldn't get an erection, pull his pants down and have intercourse with a woman.

Samuel's birthday.

6th January 2012, Friday.

Happy birthday!

Our presents for him, 2 polos from Ben Sherman!

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Read this just now.

"You know as they say, if life gives you lemons, make lemonade? Well, I've had so many bad boyfriends in the past that I have a whole pitcher full of lemonade now. And you know what? I'm going to share that lemonade with you so you don't have to go around wasting your life collecting lemons like I did."

What's your Definition of a Good Boyfriend?

http://www.myfatpocket.com/sex-love/my-definition-of-a-good-boyfriend.html

Here's my definition of a good boyfriend. Look out for these traits, if it's missing... I'm warning you (gently) that you're likely to end up with a lemon.

A good boyfriend:

- is not a flirt

When you're at a party, look at how he socialises. Separate from him, and then watch him while he's solo. If he is just having civil conversation, fantastic. If you see him touching and complimenting another woman and his eyes roving all over the place, that's not good.

If you really like him, then at some point after the party talk to him about how that made you feel. Chances are he probably didn't know that his behaviour made you feel bad or was disrespectful. However, if he continues to flirt with other women, then he’s being very clear not only about who he is, but also about how little he respects you.

- makes time for you

If your boyfriend is spending a lot of time with you (and it's not just for sex), it's a very positive sign. Some guys may not be very comfortable expressing feelings of love but they may spend every available opportunity with you because they love you.

Even if he cannot meet you, a man who is involved with his relationship will always find an excuse to call you, be it to share a thought, or ask your opinion or because he misses you.

- is not a bad loser and is a gracious winner

How a guy loses can tell you who he is... especially if you're the one that beat him! How a man responds to defeat tells you how mature he is. Apart from not being a sore loser, the mark of a good man (and hence a good boyfriend and partner for you) is that he is humble about winning. This means not gloating and rubbing it in your face when he does get ahead at something or when he is right in an argument.

- tells you that he loves you

...and means it. Many men use fake declarations of love in order to manipulate women. They just say what you want to hear. And on the other extreme are the men who are commitment phobes who find it nearly impossible to tell you that he loves you... even after months and months of courtship.

A good boyfriend won't be ashamed of his love for you. He will not hide it from his family or friends. And most of all, he will not hide it from you.

- is not volatile

Couples, even the best ones, will fight. When you have your first fight, pay attention to it. You can tell just about everything you need to know about a person by the way they fight. You simply do not know someone until you’ve had a fight with them. How violent? Rational? Crazy are they? How fast and easily does he erupt and how long does the anger last. Does he hold grudges?

When you disagree, and your boyfriend starts attacking you verbally or physically, then he's not a man, he's a beast. If he is rational, sticks to the point and actually listens and gives you a chance to explain, then you have a good boyfriend. Keep him, and treat him well.

- lets you be yourself

A good boyfriend does not try to control or change you but is attracted to you for who you are. If he is overly possessive, critical, irrationally jealous or dictates what you can or cannot do, then he is a bad boyfriend. A good boyfriend plays more of a supportive role and seeing you happy makes him happy. 

Actually, when you look at it simply, a good boyfriend should have all the qualities you want in a best friend ...... oh and, of course there needs to be sexual compatibility too! :)

你可知道..

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你可知道

當女人被男人脫去自己的衣服

一絲不掛的在他面前

是需要多少的愛

你可知道

女人為什麼會背朝你睡

因為她不喜歡看你的背影

如果你以後抱著她睡

她會安心一整個晚上

你可知道

女人把每一次的愛情

當作是初戀

也是這輩子最後一個來愛

你可知道

女人那麼愛吃醋不是因為不相信你

而是你在她心中太美好

她不希望這種美好倒映在別的女人眼中

你可知道

深愛你的女人在沖你發火以後

自己卻轉身不斷哭泣

你可知道

當女人頂著哭花的臉

走在街上

不管是不是有人在看她時

她的心已經快要死了

你可知道

她只會對她愛的男人嘮叨

也只會對她在乎的人耍性子

你可知道

她的任性 她的壞脾氣

其實都只是在對你撒嬌

希望你更重視她

你可知道

假若她不愛你

她根本不會對你發火

不會希望你去哄她

更不會為你掉眼淚

因為她不愛的人沒那本事

你可知道

當你離開她

留下她獨自一人

她有多大的期待和恐懼

而這一切都只是因為她愛你

而這一切都因為你還不夠懂她

女人知道太多不該知道的事情

男人不知道太多該知道的事情

於是.你們爭吵.你認為她脾氣不好.

她認為你不夠遷就她……

於是.你們冷戰.你以為她沒有完全接受你，

她以為你不在乎她……

請給她一個擁抱一個吻.用你的擁抱你的吻

去化解她心裡的悲傷和眼角的淚水.

因為她只是害怕你的冷漠、轉身和安靜

兩個深愛的人在一起，就要

互相包容，互相理解，互相體諒，互相信任，

否則當你們真正失去時將會遺憾終生

否則美好的未來也就在你們自己手中泯滅了！ 

希望每一個男人都能夠好好珍惜陪伴在你身邊的女人

她們為你付出過，不求回報 卻希望你們能夠讀懂， 

能夠牽著她們的手堅定地走下去

不要讓愛你的女人流淚

不要讓她傷心 更不要讓她絕望和死心！

因為女人一旦真愛了，失去她愛著的人

就意味著失去了整個世界... 

贝比，我好爱好爱你！

<3

Preparations for my 21st!

Right now as you're reading this post I should be in Ehub Kbox singing songs with my closest people! HEHEHE.

Those who know me, or rather my friends would definitely know that tomorrow is my 21st Birthday! HAHA, yes, I'm all excited and all. And for my 21st, I went to dye my hair just last week.

Woo, so red.

But my hair is truer to this red instead.

At Pioneer, 83 Hair Dressing. 

After dye-ing, treatment & trimming!

Guess how much?

It's $130! HAHA, considered quite cheap right for my hair length? 

Love my hair? I love it too, but it will be gone very very soon. HAHA.
Well, let's hope I have a great 21st birthday celebration tomorrow,
Stay tuned if you wanna know about my celebration! HAHA.

P.S. Dont forget to wish me happy birthday via FB, SMS, Whatsapp, Twitter or whatever! HAHAHA.

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“@ZodiacFacts: #ZodiacFacts A #Libra needs a partner that puts their relationship first.”

Hi am so bored. Just here to upload a couple of photos.

The very cute biscuit bought at The Central the other day with Bf & Erinna.

Hello Kitty mouse pad! HEHEHE. <3

&Yes, I've got the full set already! HEHEHE.

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26th August 2011, Friday.

Bf fetched me up from work & we went Plaza Sing to meet up with Erinna Lin for my 4th Hello Kitty Watches HAHA, ok for our Final Destination 5 actually. Seriously, the show is very scary lololol, I'm making it sounds like a horror movie, oh well but damn gross on how the people die and all. :/ After movie, all we do is eat and eat and eat. First was the (new) Western store at Cine Basement and the food there wasnt satisfying and so we pop over to Graffiti Cafe for wanton mee which is just opposite the Western. HAHA, &Bf&I managed to "sai ko" Erinna Lin to Bf's house to stayover! HEHEHE. Much loved~

Hello Kitty!

Was bored over the last weekend and I downloaded the Hello Kiity apps with all kinds of Hello Kitty wallpapers! Damn cute aww, totally made my day. HAHA.

There's so many that I almost wanted to save all, but it's ok! HAHA.

These are the ones I like better, all so nice right!

And this last one is currently my whatsapp wallpaper.

What to do, it's red and it's Hello Kitty! LOLOLOL.

Oh, instagram!

I like how instagram turned my normal looking photo into nice and attractive photos below!

On my desk ♥♥

Newly bought hand cream to try.

Hello Adorable Watches! More to come!

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